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John Anderson, My Jo

Read aloud about 40 secondsBest read by grandparents, a verse eachTone Tender

John Anderson, my jo, John,
When we were first acquent,
Your locks were like the raven,
Your bonnie brow was brent;
But now your brow is beld, John,
Your locks are like the snow;
But blessings on your frosty pow,
John Anderson, my jo!

John Anderson, my jo, John,
We clamb the hill thegither;
And monie a canty day, John,
We’ve had wi’ ane anither:
Now we maun totter down, John,
But hand in hand we’ll go,
And sleep thegither at the foot,
John Anderson, my jo.

Where it fits in the ceremony

In most ceremonies the readings follow the officiant’s welcome, before the vows; a second reading can come between the vows and the exchange of rings. In a civil ceremony, some registrars ask to see readings in advance to confirm they contain no religious content — this one will pass.

Pair it with

Two readings that balance this one, one sacred and one secular:

  • Tobit 8:4–8 — “Mercifully ordain that we may become aged together” — Tobias and Sarah’s wedding-night prayer.
  • Philippians 2:1–4 — “Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”

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