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Ceremony Readings · 39 readings

Unique Wedding Readings

Unique and unusual wedding readings that few guests will have heard — Plato, Mark Twain, Lovelace, Mary Weston Fordham, Amy Lowell and more.

If you have been to enough weddings to mouth along to 1 Corinthians, this is the collection for you. These are readings that are rarely heard at weddings but deserve to be: a Jacobean wedding song, a Quaker founder’s advice, the myth that gave us “my other half,” a nineteenth-century Black poet from Charleston echoing the marriage vows.

Unfamiliar doesn’t mean obscure for its own sake. Every piece here reads clearly the first time a guest hears it, and every note gives your reader enough context to introduce it in a sentence if they want to.

A Decade

Amy Lowell · 20 s“When you came, you were like red wine and honey … Now you are like morning bread.”

A Family Prayer

Robert Louis Stevenson · 30 sRobert Louis Stevenson gives thanks for the love that unites a family.

And You, Helen

Edward Thomas · 1 min 05 s“I would give you back yourself” — Edward Thomas’s list of gifts for his wife.

Bridal Song

John Ford · 30 sA Jacobean wedding song: comforts lasting, loves increasing.

Camerado, I Give You My Hand

Walt Whitman · 55 s“Will you give me yourself? will you come travel with me?” — the close of Whitman’s road song.

Colossians 3:15–17

King James Version · 40 s“Let the peace of God rule in your hearts … and be ye thankful.”

Ephesians 4:1–6

King James Version · 40 s“Forbearing one another in love” — a call to humility, patience and unity.

From Song of the Open Road

Walt Whitman · 1 min 15 sWalt Whitman’s road, adapted for a wedding: you shall not anchor there.

Hands Cling to Hands

Rabindranath Tagore · 1 min 35 s“This love between you and me is simple as a song” — Tagore’s own English, 1913.

Hindu Marriage Poem

35 s“May the nights be honey-sweet for us” — words drawn from Vedic wedding hymns.

Hope is the thing with feathers

Emily Dickinson · 30 sEmily Dickinson’s hope, perched in the soul and singing without words.

Hosea 2:19–20

King James Version · 20 s“I will betroth thee unto me for ever” — God’s marriage vow to Israel.

I Just Wanted to Be Sure of You

A. A. Milne · 15 s“Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw. “I just wanted to be sure of you.”

If Thou Must Love Me

Elizabeth Barrett Browning · 55 sLove me for love’s sake only — Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s Sonnet 14.

Isaiah 54:10

King James Version · 15 s“The mountains shall depart … but my kindness shall not depart from thee.”

Jeremiah 31:31–34

1 min 20 sA new covenant, written on the heart.

Love Is a Great Thing

Thomas à Kempis · 1 min 15 sThomas à Kempis: love makes the heavy light, and bears evenly all that is uneven.

Love Lives

John Clare · 45 sJohn Clare’s love that lives beyond the tomb, in sleep and in spring.

Love Song

Traditional, Inuit · 20 s“My feet shall run because of you” — a short traditional love song.

Marriage

Mary Weston Fordham · 25 s“The die is cast, come weal, come woe” — Mary Weston Fordham, 1897.

Never Marry but for Love

William Penn · 1 min 40 sWilliam Penn’s advice: never marry but for love, but see that thou lovest what is lovely.

One Day I Wrote Her Name upon the Strand

Edmund Spenser · 55 sSpenser writes his beloved’s name in the sand; the tide washes it away; the poem keeps it.

Philippians 2:1–4

King James Version · 35 s“Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”

Psalm 121

King James Version · 50 s“I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills” — a traveler’s psalm of protection.

Psalm 67

King James Version · 50 s“God be merciful unto us, and bless us” — a harvest psalm of blessing.

Sonnet 130

William Shakespeare · 55 s“My mistress’ eyes are nothing like the sun” — Shakespeare’s loving send-up of love poems.

Sudden Light

Dante Gabriel Rossetti · 45 sDante Gabriel Rossetti’s poem of déjà vu: I have been here before.

Summum Bonum

Robert Browning · 35 sOne bee, one gem, one pearl — and, above them all, the kiss of one girl.

That I Did Always Love

Emily Dickinson · 20 s“That till I loved / I did not love enough” — Emily Dickinson’s short proof of love.

The Little Boat

Leo Tolstoy, translated by Constance Garnett · 1 min 15 sTolstoy’s Levin discovers that marriage is like getting into a little boat: delightful, and difficult.

The Passionate Shepherd to His Love

Christopher Marlowe · 1 min 10 s“Come live with me and be my love” — Marlowe’s pastoral invitation.

The Symposium

Plato, translated by Benjamin Jowett · 45 sPlato’s Aristophanes on finding your other half — the origin of the phrase.

Time Is

Henry van Dyke · 20 s“Time is too slow for those who wait … But for those who love, time is not.”

To Althea, from Prison

Richard Lovelace · 20 s“Stone walls do not a prison make” — Richard Lovelace on the freedom love gives.

Tobit 8:4–8

King James Version · 1 min 00 s“Mercifully ordain that we may become aged together” — Tobias and Sarah’s wedding-night prayer.

What Is Real, from The Velveteen Rabbit

Margery Williams · 1 min 40 sThe Skin Horse explains what it means to become Real.

What Is the Beginning? Love.

Christina Rossetti · 30 sChristina Rossetti’s question-and-answer poem: love at the beginning, the course and the goal.

When Our Two Souls Stand Up Erect and Strong

Elizabeth Barrett Browning · 50 sElizabeth Barrett Browning’s Sonnet 22: why reach for heaven, when we can stay on earth and love?

Wheresoever She Was, There Was Eden

Mark Twain · 1 min 55 sEve can’t explain why she loves Adam, and doesn’t need to — Mark Twain at his most tender.

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