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Readings · Ceremony

A Birthday

Read aloud about 50 secondsBest read by a sister or best friendTone Joyful

My heart is like a singing bird
Whose nest is in a watered shoot;
My heart is like an apple-tree
Whose boughs are bent with thickset fruit;
My heart is like a rainbow shell
That paddles in a halcyon sea;
My heart is gladder than all these
Because my love is come to me.

Raise me a dais of silk and down;
Hang it with vair and purple dyes;
Carve it in doves, and pomegranates,
And peacocks with a hundred eyes;
Work it in gold and silver grapes,
In leaves, and silver fleurs-de-lys;
Because the birthday of my life
Is come, my love is come to me.

Where it fits in the ceremony

In most ceremonies the readings follow the officiant’s welcome, before the vows; a second reading can come between the vows and the exchange of rings. In a civil ceremony, some registrars ask to see readings in advance to confirm they contain no religious content — this one will pass.

Pair it with

Two readings that balance this one, one sacred and one secular:

  • Psalm 67 — “God be merciful unto us, and bless us” — a harvest psalm of blessing.
  • Colossians 3:15–17 — “Let the peace of God rule in your hearts … and be ye thankful.”

All 104 wedding readings · The order of the ceremony